"You have to risk going too far to discover just how far you can really go!"
To find the limits of your ability, one must go to the edge. The question: Where is the edge? How does one find it? You must find it inside yourself. Challenge yourself by going bigger until you find the limit. Forget everything and push yourself until you fail. While you can "push" yourself; you cannot "push" others. Vice versa you cannot "pull" yourself, but you can "pull" others. The best way to lead is by example. This is how BeMen attracts others. This is the "pull". BeMen then invites you to "Join The Brotherhood". Once you've joined, now you can join the "push". This is how "The Masculine Movement" progresses. Few men will risk traveling outside their comfort zone, but to reach levels never experienced, you will have to attempt things you've never done! Be Extraordinary!